There’s someone in your life who you wonder whether or not they like you. The signals they’re sending your way keep getting confused. But it doesn’t have to be that way with this psychic tarot pick a card.
All you need to do is select one of the piles of cards above that sticks out to you the most.
After you select your cards, scroll down to your pile or choose below.
Here I’m using the Golden Art Nouveau Tarot and the Work Your Light oracle decks (these are affiliate links that help support me if you make a purchase). Remember you have free will. That means you can manifest the positive and avoid the negative of any reading.
Now let’s find out if your person likes you.
Pile 1: Purple Hearts
They Don’t Like You
When I pulled your spread, I got the distinct sense from the Nine of Swords that your person feels very anxious around you. This may cause you to perceive the way they feel and act as romantic butterflies. However, that’s unfortunately not the case.
There’s something about you that makes this person uneasy. Perhaps they aren’t ready for a relationship or they like someone else.
Either way, this person simply isn’t interested and is nervous when they need to be around you. Do your best not to interpret these signals as love (at least right now). There’s more to your spread than just this card.
You Can Learn What You Like
The second card in your spread is Mirror with the wisdom message of “Who or what is triggering you?” I sense something about this other person intrigues your interest. Perhaps they have the qualities you want in a person or they’re physically attractive.
It’s also possible this person is an ex or someone who once liked you, but no more.
What you can learn from your potential interest in a relationship with this person are the traits you want to see in a significant other. But you also need to recognize that just because you want these things doesn’t mean a person who has those traits may automatically be interested in you.
Your Future Is Still Possible
While this reading may be disappointing for some of you, your third card has a positive message. Here Take a Break has the wisdom message of “A life’s work, not a season. Get off the treadmill.”
I believe you’re focusing too much on falling in love and not so much on the work that comes after. Perhaps this person is someone you can be in a relationship with at a later date, but right now, you’re not ready to pursue that romance because you can’t perceive hints and flirt correctly.
That will make it difficult for you to respond appropriately and to build chemistry with a loved one.
For now, take a break from trying to find your next romance. It will help you focus on the holistic perspective of your life and the people within it. In time, you’ll find yourself observing how other people act in love so you can perceive it in your life.
This person may be anxious around you because the way you show interest or flirt isn’t that great at attracting someone right now. This time off from romance, and allowing yourself to observe others in love, may give you another chance with them later.
Pile 2: Orange Hearts
Overall, your spread is very positive and suggests that this person does like you.
But there’s some complexity in your spread that I’d like to address. The first card here, the Eight of Pentacles, tells me that your person believes love is something developed over time. While I do think they have feelings for you, these feelings aren’t as deep as you may perceive them to be.
When they fall in love, they want to nurture those feelings over time within a relationship.
Be aware that if you choose to pursue a relationship with this person, it may not be beneficial to be extremely passionate right away. Show your interest, but don’t smother them with love.
Instead, you need to focus on demonstrative acts of commitment appropriate to the current level of the relationship. Interested in them? Flirt or ask them out. Dating? Plan meaningful outings. Ready for more? Discuss your plans for the future.
You’re Going to Change
The second card in your spread is the Inner Temple with the wisdom message of “Devotion. Tune in to the portal of your heart.”
Understand that you’ll probably be transformed by your relationship with this person. Who you are now will change the more you get to know them and yourself from your interactions.
You will then take this knowledge into your daily life and alter how you approach things.
One way you can foresee what that change will be like is to look carefully at this other person. To a degree, you’ll be mirroring some of their traits. Yes, you’ll be your own person, but just like you will inspire them, something within them will inspire you.
Do you like what you see? If so, you know you’ll like the person you will become alongside them.
You’re Gaining a Family
The last card in your spread is Soul Family with the wisdom message of “Call in your tribe. You don’t have to do this alone.”
It probably won’t surprise you that your person has a large family or social network. If they don’t currently have one, they will in the near future. That means it’s incredibly likely you’ll be spending a lot of time with other people during birthdays and holidays. Introverts – prepare yourself.
But all of you should revel in this because you can make friendships with these people and enlarge the number of people who matter in your life. These are people you’ll be able to turn to when times get tough, no matter the area of life, and that’s something to look forward to.
Be open to sharing the people in your life with your person too. It may be strange to watch a sibling or friend also become close with your person, but the interconnectedness of both your families will be a powerful, lifelong experience.
A relationship with this person will probably last.
Pile 3: Blue Hearts
Not Meant to Be
Wow, this is perhaps the most interesting spread I’ve seen in a while! So with the Death card here, it’s important to say that this person may or may not like you, but that’s irrelevant. Pursuing this relationship will have negative consequences down the road.
See how the people in the card are frightened by the figure of death approaching? That’s because this relationship will ultimately die. Or need to die.
But there’s a sense of renewal and rebirth here. That’s why I think you’re both pulled in each other’s directions even though fate is against you.
Because your next card has a stunning revelation.
The Future of Your Family
The second card in your spread is Anna, Grandmother of Jesus with the wisdom message of “Seeding the light. Laying foundations. Divine plan.” It’s clear that you and this person are supposed to unite, but that’s as family, not lovers.
I see you a bit like Anna here. You will either have a grandchild or other family member down the road who will be destined to get together with someone from that person’s family. That means you’ll become in-laws.
I don’t know why exactly the universe has decided to cause you and this person to be attracted now, but it is probably some universal energy to help make the families friendlier to each other. It could also be that you and this person have similar parenting or social styles that will influence the future family members when they finally meet. For a minority of you, it could be that you and this person mentor or befriend the future couple that is to become of you.
The universe probably has an important plan for this future couple and it needs them to happen. Getting in the way of that will be catastrophic.
The final card in your spread is Boundaries with the wisdom message of “Where do you need to establish better boundaries?”
An obvious piece of advice here is that you shouldn’t start dating this person, especially if you and them have older children who could be attracted to each other. This would make it morally impossible for them to act on their attraction.
But more than that, you should take this lesson to heart elsewhere. Be careful not to pursue a relationship with anyone closely related to them if you can avoid it. While I think it’s likely the future couple are your grandchildren, that may not be the case for everyone who reads this pile.
If you need to, distance yourself from this person until your or their attraction subsides. And then make it clear that your relationship with them is only going to be platonic going forward.
Don’t push them out of your life altogether by banning them from your presence. There is, after all, a very good chance you’ll be family one day.
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