Be Happier in Relationships — Tarot Pick a Card

Hello, my soul friends! Today I have a psychic tarot reading on how you can be happier in your relationships. This reading works for romantic or non-romantic relationships. It’s also a general reading so you don’t need to specify a particular person in your mind before the reading.

All you have to do to receive this message is pick one of the piles above using your intuition.

After you select your cards, scroll down to your pile or choose below.

For this reading, I’ve chosen the Mystical Manga Tarot deck (this is an affiliate link that supports me if you make a purchase). Remember that you have free will. That means you can manifest the positive and avoid the negative of any reading.

Now it’s time to find out how you can feel better with your social connections.

Pile 1: Dragon

Equal and Not Equal

It seems like you have some sort of debt or inequality that you’re dealing with according to the Six of Coins, Reversed. No doubt this is frustrating even if the other people in your life don’t use it against you.

You probably feel as if you’re in a hierarchal situation or that you need to be careful about approaching certain topics unless you have “permission.” This reduces your freedom and can hinder intimacy.

For you to overcome this, you have two options: the first is to pay your debts or get out of an unequal situation. If you owe money, pay it back as soon as possible. If you feel like the person has more power than you, it may mean stepping away from the situation or finding a way to “rank up.”

The other option is to accept that some relationships will never be equal. While you may have the same civil rights, you may not have the same social privileges. A child normally owes deference to their parent and an employee can’t suddenly become equal with the boss.

But as long as those unequal relationships are still healthy and you’re having supportive or positive interactions, it’s okay. If not, working on those relationships will make you happier.

Isolating Yourself

Right now, it seems as if you’re secluding yourself either physically or emotionally. The Hermit indicates that you aren’t as available as you could be to others.

In some cases, this may be a good idea. If you’re in an unequal relationship with someone and it makes you feel bad, stepping away from the situation can do a lot for your mental health.

But often, secluding yourself can be the wrong answer – especially if it puts you in financial peril or your intimacy with others is threatened.

I would write down the name of each person you have a clear connection to and ask yourself if you should be spending more time or less time with them. Don’t assume that you should be getting close to everyone in your life.

Once you know where you should stand with others, it’ll be time to change your behavior to match. For those you should step away from, either physically or emotionally, you may need to find some way to distract or distance yourself from them.

And for those you should get closer to, focus on quality time instead of quantity of time. Find something meaningful you can do together with them where you can build memories.

It’s Time for Progress, Not Pause

Things are slowing down in your life. The Eight of Wands, Reversed shows that you’re in social paralysis. That means you’re feeling stuck and can’t progress socially or emotionally.

You may have done this yourself to figure out your next steps. After all, you don’t want to make your situation worse and end up in worse debt or in a more unequal relationship than you already are.

But the time when you need to pause is ending. Instead, you need to speed things up or put passion back into your relationships.

This doesn’t mean making yourself busy. But rather, you should be focusing on relationship goals. Is it paying someone off? Is it becoming someone’s equal or better? Or perhaps it’s getting closer to someone you care about?

Every relationship that matters in your life should have a goal to accompany it. That will encourage you to act in ways that are productive and conducive to positive change.

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Pile 2: Castle

Social Blunders Abound

You’re not prepared to deal with your relationships, and because of this, your communication with them isn’t going well. The Page of Swords, Reversed shows you’re being impulsive in a way that hurts you.

Of course, this may not mean your relationships are necessarily bad, but that they aren’t as good as they could be. An example of this in play would be a child with ADHD. Their impulsive actions and communication style can frustrate their peers and even lead to them being bullied.

The good news is that you can improve your “foot in mouth” condition by reviewing your most problematic conversation types or situations. You may not want to change who you are, but the way you approach certain topics or environments can be altered to be more productive.

Have a plan for how you’ll act or react to certain things. Someone who is triggered by political conversations may find that bringing up those topics or responding to them with specific people will only cause hard feelings.

Know where you lose control and start planning a different course of action.

A Better Person? Maybe Not

I sense that someone in your life is more organized and prepared than you. The Hierophant in your life may or may not mean well, but you’re certainly no match for them. You may even be dealing with multiple people like this.

That can cause intense frustration. But there are two types of hierophants: those who are truly competent and those who are a master of one type of communication style that you’re bad at.

The truly competent hierophants of your life are not easy to best without learning the same things they have. If this is a person you like, it may just be important for you to accept they know more and defer to their expertise. If they’re being a jerk about it, you may need to confront them.

Otherwise, you need to get prepared by getting better.

As for those who are masters of a communication style you’re bad at, you need to know the two types: feelings and logic. Someone good with feelings will know how to push emotional buttons whereas someone who uses logic will make you feel like they know more (even if they don’t). Communication style does not equal mastery of the subject matter they’re speaking on. Just delivery.

You can argue with them using your preferred style, but they may have framed the conversation using their preferred style and you can’t insert yourself properly. This person could be manipulative or needlessly disagreeable in search of a debate win. Sometimes, it’s not a war worth fighting when someone isn’t playing nicely.

Don’t Change Who You Are

One thing I see in your spread with The Hanged Man, Reverse is that you shouldn’t make any sacrifices. While you can plan ahead and learn more to better deal with the people in your life, you shouldn’t change yourself if you don’t want to change.

Sometimes, being happier in a relationship is accepting that you don’t need to change to fit in with others. Rather, you need to approach the situations differently to give yourself a better advantage.

So do what you need to do to be in a better spot, but don’t change everything about yourself to do it. You won’t be happier for it.

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Pile 3: Bird

Trust Your Intuition

You’re either happy in your relationships or you have the ability to do so. However, your spread indicates someone in your life who is a detriment.

You may or may not know the extent of their bad influence on you, but let’s explore the Queen of Cups a bit. In any relationship, you should feel emotionally at peace or emotionally eager. This represents a contentment with a relationship or a desire to see it grow.

Your intuition is a good sign of when things are amiss. Now, your intuition may sometimes only be pointing out small things that can be easily resolved. However, any time you sense something off or you feel terrible, something is wrong and you should tend to it.

The energy between you and your relationships should be free-flowing. Everyone is inherently flawed, but flawed people can and do have genuine intimacy. So if you feel an obstruction, an obstruction exists at least in your perception and it needs to be addressed.

Broken Heart?

With the Three of Swords card in your spread, it appears that heartbreak or disappointment is on the horizon. For some, but certainly not most in this spread, this card and the third card suggests romantic cheating or a friend or family member picking someone over you. Sort of like when your best friend decides someone else is their best friend instead.

Now it’s possible this heartbreak is a lot smaller in consequence – something like someone you love has disappointed you by not doing housework, a family member forgetting your birthday, or a friend seeming too busy to hang out.

But regardless of whether the heartbreak or disappointment is big or small, you need to be prepared to weather that storm and understand you’re not to blame.

It’s easy to see the flaws in others as a reflection of your own errors, but that’s not the case here. Sometimes people just hurt you and you didn’t deserve it. Don’t try to justify it because of your love for them. It’ll just create a pattern that doesn’t have to exist for you.

Hard to Work With

The final card in your spread, Three of Coins, Reversed, means you’re going to struggle to have a productive relationship with one or more people in your life. This will probably be temporary, but the frustration could have tangible consequences.

Perhaps you’re so emotionally afflicted that you miss out on opportunities at work, you feel sick, or you don’t get to spend time with the person you care about.

Whatever happens, I want you to know this isn’t the end and that you shouldn’t define your happiness in relationships by chance or unfortunate circumstances. Instead, redirect your attention to other relationships in your life or even seek out a new one.

Example: your best friend no longer considers you their best friend because they found someone else they resonate more with. You’d undoubtedly be heartbroken, but see this as an opportunity to find a new best friend who may have more interests with you than the last. Sometimes people grow apart after all.

Relationships change, sometimes for the worse, but you can rebuild or create new relationships that mean just as much or even more than the old.

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