Why You’re Attractive — Tarot Pick a Card

Hello, my soul friends! Today I have a psychic tarot reading on why you’re attractive to love interests. This is meant to be a fun reading whether you’re single or in a relationship.

To receive your message from the universe, pick one of the piles above using your intuition.

After you select your cards, scroll down to your pile or choose below.

For this reading, I’ve chosen the Tarot of the Divine deck (this is an affiliate link that supports me if you make a purchase). Remember that you have free will. That means you can manifest the positive and avoid the negative of any reading.

Now let’s see why you’re attractive.

Pile 1: Star

Emotionally Trustworthy

You know how to set aside your emotions and be objective when it’s really important. The Eight of Cups is about an emotional leaving, and in the context of your spread, it’s about being willing and able to let go of attachments when needed.

There are a lot of times in life when we need to make decisions and we can’t be biased. The reason you’re attractive is that you’re able to make these decisions and this makes you trustworthy.

That doesn’t mean you’re unfeeling or cold. If you were, then this wouldn’t be an attractive trait, but rather a reason to not be interested in you.

You may not even realize this is an attractive quality you have because you may confuse stoicism with aloofness or antisocial behavior. But the right amount of stoicism in acute situations, which I believe you have, is incredibly attractive in a relationship. They know you’re reliable – especially in a crisis. You won’t fall apart.

Building Something

Your emotional stoicism leads to you being able to build something in life. The Ten of Coins is about a culmination of materialistic success, especially in the context of family, relationships, or multiple generations.

There’s been evidence to prove your emotional strength in the world. Perhaps people have distinct and important memories that have created a good reputation of you. Or you may literally have done something to lead to personal success that can only be attributed to a good emotional character.

It can even be actions or habits. In America, there’s this belief that a person who takes the shopping cart back to the corral is likely to be a good person. Another example is if a person treats service workers like waitstaff or cashiers with active respect. It’s something we’re told to look for when on a date with someone for the first time.

You can probably take some time today to meditate or journal on specific examples from your own life if you need a boost of confidence. Listing these out will provide tangible proof to you that you’re attractive for all the right reasons.

So know this trait is general proof that you’ll make something of yourself too. It can’t help but manifest in a material way in the world.

Someone Of Value

I think you take on a lot of responsibility given the Ten of Wands card. You might even take on too much. While this is an amazing trait and shows that you’re attractive for important qualities, I think it’s also a sign that you might attract dependent people.

It’s one thing if this dependent person truly needs you or is appreciative. But some people will take advantage of this. One way I’ve heard it described in Paris Paloma’s song “Labour” is to weaponize the false incompetence. It’s dominance under a guise.

This is something I want you to look out for both now, but also in the past. It may describe some of the tension you’ve experienced in romantic (and perhaps non-romantic) relationships. Someone competent may not do exactly the same acts of service you do for them, but they should be doing something of equal value to the relationship. Otherwise, you’re being taken advantage of.

That said, I think this general trait of emotional stoicism, the ability to build something in life, and your responsible nature suggests you’re a high-value catch. Don’t think less of yourself than that.

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Pile 2: Artifact

Unbelievably Charismatic

You have a tendency to pick the right path in life. That may confuse you to hear because the Two of Cups, Reversed card indicates that you’ve broken commitments or decisions in the past. However, you did that for a good reason – your intuition or higher self led you to realize that path would lead you to ruin.

Someone looking at your life on the outside is likely to perceive you as witty and able to navigate difficult situations. Because of this, they find a charisma in you. If you like something, then you have a good reason – so they really hope you like them.

I suspect if you were to show someone affection they would return it in kind, even if they were in a relationship, because they correctly perceive in you someone with a good eye.

Not that I think you’re a homewrecker. That example is just to show the power of your attraction in those who choose to see it. Everyone wants you to like them.

Setting the Stage

It seems as if you attract social or spiritual support because of the Nine of Wands card. This references going into battle and coming out of it as a survivor. So this could either indicate a past trial, one you’re currently going through, or the ability to overcome should it happen to you in the future.

This is due to the charisma I mentioned before. People see you as a winner at least of your own circumstances. Even if you don’t feel the same (and I think that’s true because of the first two cards), it’s clear that you’re admirable.

One way you can apply this attractive quality on purpose and in a way that feels comfortable to you is to find something in life you choose to be passionate about.

Because when you pursue that passion, people are going to be impressed. It doesn’t have to be a serious, life purpose thing either. Any passion, even a passion on the side, applies it. We’ve all encountered people like this who were so good at what they did you wanted to be around them more. That’s the essence of your attractiveness.

Having It All

The final card in your spread is The Fool card. Upright this card is positive because it’s optimistic and even lucky. There’s no guarantee of success in your life, but it seems like the path ahead is brighter than one would expect and you’re going to make all the right steps.

This card also evokes the hero’s journey in Western literature which means you’ve got all the attractive qualities you would expect of a hero – or at least enough of them. And many heroic journeys also have a romantic interlude. You’re going to find or keep a romance with a happy ending.

Just be aware that your spread does indicate a life that’s interesting. Interesting lives tend to have challenges. The good news is that it seems as if you’re going to be helped out by others or by spiritual beings who want to see you succeed.

On this card, notice the castle in the background. I see this as a promise of culmination – at the end of your journey, you’ll have everything you wanted. So whatever you think would make you attractive, you’re going to have some semblance of that which will only increase your attractiveness even more.

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Pile 3: Inkwell

A Wit That Matters

You don’t wear your passion on your sleeves, but you do wear your intelligence. The Ten of Swords, Reversed is a sign that you’ve either overcome a difficult situation or it seems like you’d be able to do so.

But in particular is why. Your spread emphasizes intellectual wit over everything else and that’s what makes you attractive. It’s not that you don’t have other attractive traits, but that the universe really wants you to know how and why your intelligence matters in attracting and keeping romantic partners.

Another way to describe the Ten of Swords is betrayal or someone backstabbing. Since you overcame this or could overcome it, you’d probably attract someone who values wit because they see it as useful. They also know that you can be relied upon because you’d never betray them.

The people you attract wouldn’t simply like you for shallow reasons like “glasses are cool” or “nerds are sexy.” They’d be able to verbalize the specific reason your intelligence is attractive and why it’s useful.

Your Dynamic

I get the impression from the Knight of Wands, Reversed that you may attract someone who has more passion or soft personality traits in direct contrast to you. Even if you think you’re an introvert or very artsy, you’re going to attract someone even moreso.

That’s because they see the part of you that’s beneath your intelligence. I said that you wear your intelligence and your passion isn’t as upfront. That doesn’t mean you don’t have it.

The people who matter are going to be able to trace your intelligence to the source. They’ll realize why you’re intelligent and how you apply it to your career or personal hobbies. No doubt this person will share or really appreciate those traits and be a great conversationalist with you (even if they’re normally very quiet).

I do think they may come across as more timid, though, because you’re going to attract someone who needs your guidance or assistance in life. But in return, they’re likely to speak up in situations you couldn’t bring yourself to do so because it seems against your personality.

How to Look Your Best

The final card, Knight of Swords, indicates that your intelligence is carried on your words, but I did say you wear it too. That means some aspect of your physical appearance is very smart. Perhaps you wear glasses, have a bookish face, dress in a scholarly way, or some other intelligent aesthetic known to your culture.

If you don’t already look this way, I think you should adopt it because it’s going to match your personality and character in such a way that it emphasizes your existing attractiveness.

That doesn’t mean go wear fake glasses, but pay attention over the next few months for anything that seems smart in appearance. Trial it out as a look. You might appreciate the way you feel when you look in the mirror.

But some other fun additions. Depending on how you communicate, you’re going to want to emphasize that point. A witty conversationalist or comedic? Make sure your smile is bright. If your teeth aren’t your best point, try to bring attention to your eyes. So lipstick, eyeshadow, or a forehead clear of bands would be an excellent focal point.

I have unfortunately terrible teeth, but I practiced giving sincere smiles and get frequent compliments because of it. So you can work with what you have even if it isn’t great. It’s meant to deliver your communicated wit and not actually be the true focal point.

More of a writer or artist? Keep your workstation, portfolio, or social media profile tidy. Reputation is an echo of one’s intelligence – especially yours. Appearances can lift that reputation even higher.

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