Your Soulmate Is a Real Person

You’ve probably heard the term soulmate before. Maybe in a movie, a book, or when talking with a friend about a crush. But what is it really?

Let’s start with what it is not. A soulmate is not always a romantic partner. But a romantic partner should always be a soulmate.

Simply put, a soulmate is an important karmic connection you have in this life with another person. They grow with you to be a higher version of yourself than you are now.

But let’s get into some details.

Soulmate Energetic Connections

You have a specific energetic signature. This signature spreads out like a karmic sonar which attracts people to you with a complementary energy.

When a person like that comes into your life, they’re a soulmate. They match you at a spiritual level and you’ll be able to form an intimate connection.

That can be a friend or a family member, though the deepest soulmate bond is almost universally with a romantic partner.

You’ll know you’ve encountered a soulmate because you’ll feel a pull towards them. It’ll feel comfortable and easy, but also weirdly intense.

Sometimes you’re lucky to feel this at first sight, but a soulmate can emerge in an existing relationship if you or that person have transformed enough to match each other energetically.

And just like when you meet a new soulmate for the first time, you’ll feel a sudden energetic intimacy you didn’t feel before with existing relationships.

The Different Kind of Soulmates

Soulmates come and soulmates go. That’s because your energetic sonar is always on and seeking out new connections.

As you can already see, a soulmate doesn’t have to be romantic. But what they do serve at a spiritual level is one of growth.

Most soulmate relationships will be friendly and engaging, but some will challenge you. Think of a mentorship or even parenting. The trial isn’t easy, but it’ll transform you and you’ll forge a powerful emotional bond.

So soulmates are platonic, romantic, and sometimes even temporary.

What they are not is destructive. No soulmate relationship is the sort of challenge that harms you. If a current soulmate devolves into that kind of relationship, their energetic signature is no longer a match.

You’ll even feel that sonar I talked about warning you when they’re around. That’s your soul telling you to stay away. And you should trust it.

Why You’re Drawn to Soulmates

Soulmate connections are meant to be intense. They also reflect a need you have.

This is why people sometimes feel their romantic soulmate is an opposites attract situation. That’s not quite true if you look at them carefully. The couple almost universally is more alike than they are different, they just dwell on the differences.

But why?

As a human, you’re a social animal. Yet you also have a strong independent spirit that yearns for distinction. That means you’ll feel more comfortable around soulmates who complement your differences. Not contrast them, but complement.

That means what you have is useful to them and what they have is useful to you. It’s a mutually beneficial relationship. You are both growing from the experience.

So whenever you go through a personal challenge that results in a difficulty or even a trauma, your soul will reach out for a soulmate bond. This connection will heal you either through teaching or doing the work for you.

But people don’t just serve your needs. You serve theirs. So you may be attracted to people who need you more than you need them.

Soulmate relationships aren’t always equitable, but they are constructive. You get as much as you give, but in different ways that isn’t always tangible. It’s through helping others you’re also transformed into a better person.

People tend to feel fulfilled through helping others and soulmate relationships serve that purpose.

Soulmates are meant to change your life.

One Last Thing

While your mind is naturally drawn to the idea of romance when you hear the word soulmate, it’s clear now that it means something deeper.

Soulmates are transformative connections that challenge you and help you grow. They can be any type of relationship in your life. But you should feel an energetic intimacy that doesn’t exist with other people.

So when you feel that bond emerging between you or another person, embrace it. You’ll be better off because of it.

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