Hidden Truths About Your Relationship — Tarot Pick a Card
Hello, my soul friends! I have a psychic tarot reading today on hidden truths about your relationship. This is something either unknown to you or something that is unspoken, but needs to be dealt with soon. Use this reading as a revelation for any specific relationship in your life, romantic or platonic.
To receive your message from the universe, pick one of the piles above using your intuition.
After you select your cards, scroll down to your pile or choose below.
For this reading, I’ve chosen the Energy Oracle deck. Remember that you have free will. That means you can manifest the positive and avoid the negative of any reading.
Now it’s time to see what hidden truth there is about your relationship.
Pile 1: Monkey
What’s The Problem?
There’s something spiritually amiss in your connection. Indecision is the clear result of this and it’s born from the Seventh Chakra and Sixth Chakra cards being a connection to the universe and intuition.
It’s possible that you aren’t on the same page about your spiritual beliefs with this person. If your connection is a platonic one and someone you don’t live with, like a casual friend or co-worker, then this mismatch can usually be survived with grace by simply not bringing it up in conversation. Agree to disagree as it were.
But if the relationship you’re thinking about is a close connection, someone you live with like a partner or a best friend who is frequently part of your daily life, then this mismatch could be very destructive.
What to Do
If your relationship is of the more sensitive variety for this spread, then you need to approach the situation with care. Some personalities permit vast differences in lifestyles and beliefs, but not everyone is like this.
The first thing you need to consider is if this person is someone of proximity or of shared decision-making. If you have different beliefs from a friend or family member you no longer live with, then you can probably make this work. It won’t always be easy, but you can usually do it. Agree not to bring up this conversation and have a frank discussion about related topics that also shouldn’t be brought up.
Snide comments can trigger both you and this person. It’s not just about not bringing it up as a conversation topic, but about not giving passing commentary that is meant to belittle the other person’s beliefs.
Example: you believe in tarot cards, but perhaps your family member doesn’t. When passing them by in the store while shopping with you they might joke that “nobody seriously believes that” despite the fact you obviously do. These kind of snide comments build resentment in any relationship (and often deals death blows in romantic relationships), so it’s important not to let them stand and make sure the other person isn’t being snide around you.
Remember to return the favor for the things they believe and you also find ridiculous. It goes both ways.
How to Fix the Mismatch
But the more concerning issue is if this person is a romantic partner or someone you make combined decisions with in a household or even business relationship. Then this spiritual mismatch often results in morality mismatch or life goal incompatibility.
I see this often with marriages. Both partners start out agnostic or apathetic about their spiritual beliefs. Then one of them has some sort of revelation and becomes very devoted to that pursuit. People often find themselves losing relationships in their life because of conversions and spiritual awakenings for this reason.
That’s why couples who share the same religion and go to religious observances have the lowest divorce rate. It’s not belief that matters here, but action. When one person has beliefs, but that belief isn’t acted out as a regular pattern, the other person in the relationship won’t think it matters. They might even assume their partner will switch to their way of thinking.
But those couples who are spiritual together have likely talked about their moral views and life goals and made sure they were on the same page before they even got married. We can all learn from that.
Don’t assume your relationship is on good footing just because you get along now. The future is in the details and those details come from sharing the same perspective on life. Your experiences today won’t be identical in the future because you’ll be in a different stage of life.
You may seriously disagree on spirituality, but if you and your relationship, whether it’s romantic or not, know that everything else that matters is mostly in alignment – that difference of spiritual opinion won’t seem like a threat and won’t lead to as many arguments.
Don’t let this mismatch fester. Have a discussion and find out what you and this person agree with on the other big issues in life.
Let me know in the comments by dropping a 🍿 emoji or mentioning “popcorn” if this reading resonated with you. What will you do if you find out someone close to you doesn’t agree with your spiritual beliefs?
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Pile 2: Flamingo
The Origin of the Problem
It seems like the social connections around your relationship are more harmful than helpful right now. The Community card refers either to your social group, their social group, your combined social group, or the community at large as a setting. The second card, Deceit, is a clear sign that something is amiss when it comes to honesty.
I don’t get the impression your relationship is lying to you so much that the social influence is toxic. The third card, Rest and Rejuvenation, could mean this toxicity is temporary and not one of destruction. A period of distance should fix the issue entirely.
The people around you are false or withholding something. I don’t think it’s necessarily malevolent. Perhaps they’re’s something going on in their lives and being in contact with them will only make it worse.
If your social group or local area has recently dealt with disaster (or let’s be honest, a political election), then the after effects of that event may be causing bitterness. You and your relationship may disagree with how to approach interacting with them.
The Simple Solution
The third card makes it clear that disengaging for a while is the solution. Sometimes, the hidden truth of a relationship isn’t actually difficult to deal with. It’s just an issue that hasn’t been addressed and that can ferment bitterness if it continues.
But before you begin any sort of constructive conversation, you need distance. If this is a person you and your relationship need space from, spend less time or at least don’t spend time together around them. It’ll cause an argument with you and your relationship.
If it’s a place or you’re actively involved in some sort of event of cause, then you may need to physically distance yourself from them. Take a long weekend away or even multiple weeks. If the issue is you feel stressed encountering members of your community, try staying home during that time as much as possible.
This will heal you of resentment and allow you to return with new eyes.
Addressing the Core Issue
Okay, but how do you prevent these problems from happening in the future? While you may be able to address your own feelings and heal, the thing that triggers you in your social group or community is likely to remain.
As an example, let’s say you and your relationship voted one way in an election but your local area didn’t. Every time you see members of the community, you can’t help but feel as if they’re unforgivable. However, your relationship doesn’t have the same reaction as you and it’s causing arguments.
After you have that distance like I addressed, then you and your relationship can finally sit down and talk about your values and how your going to interact with these people in the future. Perhaps they’ll never bring up politics among strangers, or if it’s really painful, the couple could consider moving.
See what I mean? It’s easier than you think. The problem isn’t with your relationship at all.
But the point of all this spread is that you and your relationship can’t make any major decisions until the hard feelings you’re experiencing dissipate enough so you can think objectively. It’s not appropriate or productive to make sudden, impulsive emotional decisions. It usually results in the wrong decision or a decision that’s not mutually agreed upon.
Let me know in the comments by dropping a 🍕 emoji or mentioning “pizza” if this reading resonated with you. Do you feel any tension between you and your environment right now?
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Pile 3: Rabbit
Don’t Discount the Heart
Whether you chose this reading for a romantic or non-romantic relationship, it’s clear the hidden truth involved here can lead to love somewhere in your life even if it’s not with this person. Door to Romance is a card that suggests opportunity: revealing what’s hidden opens that door to love.
If you’re single or should be single, you’ll be able to meet someone new. If you’re in a relationship and it’s meant to be, it’ll become more affectionate because money will stop being a major stressor.
It does seem like with The World card that the hidden truth has to do with your perception or understanding of your environment. Specifically, Financial Constraints.
Those who live in a more traditional culture or are in a financially sensitive position may feel as if love can’t come before financial security. But if you live in a more progressive culture or the developed world, then you should put love first since you can probably pursue work on your own.
The truth here that’s about to be revealed is your relationship being more accepting of your choices in love and money. You’re not as limited as you think you are and the people who care about you want to not just see you financially comfortable, but happy in love too.
Work With the System, Not Against It
Okay, so what next? If you’re in a traditional culture or financially sensitive situation, don’t assume you have just one choice. Chances are, there are multiple people that would fit your financial requirements and you should choose from them. If you use the service of matchmakers or family, make it clear that you’ll accept suggestions, but you make the final choice and you can put someone else into the selection process too.
Someone who is disabled, for example, will probably want to marry someone who can work or has wealth. But do they need someone who makes six figures? No. Don’t have an expectation to maximize the income of a potential partner. Know what is actually necessary and date from that position.
Those of you in a more progressive culture or you’re able to work yourself, understand that you or your partner doesn’t need to make an insane income or be financially independent themselves. See your partnership an economic one as much as it’s romantic: you’re together and you can work together to build a life. You aren’t alone. Combine your expectation of resources into a single expectation.
I’ve met a lot of people in the developed world who see their romantic partner not as a partner, but a roommate they sleep with. Erase that from your mind. You’re an economic partnership that is a single household and you need to start acting like it.
Future Planning
If the person you read this spread for is not a romantic relationship, chances are they have good advice or at least an interesting perspective. Talking to them about romance and finances will be enlightening. And if they’re already in a relationship? They may be a model to learn what to do or what not to do from them.
If they’re family or friends, they may also be more accepting than you think of what you want when it comes to love. Especially if they know you have reasonable expectations.
But most people who do relationship readings do so asking about a romantic connection. In that case, this reading refers to having clear priorities and lines of communication. See your partnership as an economic one and all aspects of that household being work towards that goal. This includes income work, but also homemaking, childcare, social planning, and so on.
Sometimes a partner will specialize in a particular area, like going to work or taking care of the house, but other times these are shared jobs. Be clear about what jobs are necessary in your economic partnership and divide the tasks accordingly. They’re all worthy and necessary and the outcome or revenue of that economic partnership should then be distributed equally.
Let me know in the comments by dropping a 🏠 emoji or mentioning “house” if this reading resonated with you. Do you think you have fair expectations of a partner? Does your partner have fair expectations?
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