What’s Next in Love — Tarot Pick a Card
Hello, my soul friends! I have a psychic tarot reading today on what’s next in love for you. This is for those who are single or in a relationship. We’re looking at general energies.
To receive your message from the universe, pick one of the piles above using your intuition.
After you select your cards, scroll down to your pile or choose below.
For this reading, I’ve used the Mystical Manga Tarot deck. The pile images come from a Refustar sticker pack. These are affiliate links, and they help support me if you choose to make a purchase.
Remember that you have free will. That means you can manifest the positive and avoid the negative of any reading.
Now it’s time to see what’s next in love.
Pile 1: Cauldron
Fun and Games
With the Page of Coins, someone is feeling very healthy and wants to use their body to the fullest. Romantically, this means exploration – especially in the bedroom. But in more innocent relationships that are just starting out, it could mean having fun on dates.
For those who are single, this means you’ll want to start dating again or even experiment in the dating scene. That can be very exciting for you. I also think you’re likely to attract that energy in suitors.
Be willing to try new things and take risks (just not immoral ones for you). You might even want to try giving a different type of suitor a chance. Perhaps you’re in a new phase in life and want a novel connection.
As for those in a relationship, I think this represents your partner having that curiosity. They’ll want to explore their sexuality and try new things. That can mean more fun time in the bedroom, and you should expect some happy surprises.
The Power of No
With the Seven of Wands, it’s possible that you or your romantic interest could go a bit too far. That’s fairly normal with exploration. When children and pets learn to play, they tend to accidentally hurt themselves and others in the process. But this pain is necessary for them to learn their limits.
For those who are single, be firm in your boundaries when you encounter them. If you truly don’t like something, even if you just found out that moment, say no clearly and without reservation.
On the flip side, for those with romantic partners or new suitors, understand that hesitation and disinterest aren’t always a vocal no. They may not be enthusiastic, and you’ll need to pay attention to body language. If they don’t seem interested, it may not be a compatibility. That doesn’t mean you and your partner aren’t compatible. Just this thing isn’t.
If you and your partner understand that no is always acceptable, it’ll actually lead to more exploration, not less. Neither of you will feel trapped in an unwanted activity.
Try not to be offended if there’s disagreement. Your identity isn’t wrapped up entirely in one or two things you like to do.
Remember the Whole Point
I do think that you’ll overcome whatever this disagreement is with the Five of Wands, Reversed in the spread. At first, you may feel as if this is a lack of chemistry. However, as I said before, your identity isn’t wrapped up in one or two things you like to do.
Beyond the major aspects, like sexual orientation and life goals, the details are going to naturally vary. There are going to be some things you like to do in love and your partner doesn’t. If you find incompatibility in some areas, that doesn’t mean you aren’t compatible in all areas.
That’s the brilliance of romantic exploration. You can keep trying until you find something both of you enjoy. Just remember not to maximize: this is trying to find the absolute best experience possible.
Relationships aren’t maximal endeavors. It’s about connection, and connection grows from attention you give to each other, not in what you get from them.
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Pile 2: Moon
Escaping Problems
This spread is all about relationship improvement. The Ten of Swords, Reversed means overcoming a major issue.
If you’re single, this could reflect you leaving a bad relationship or realizing what you need to do to have true love in the future. You recognize what didn’t work and want to make sure that never happens again.
For those in a relationship, this represents a negative experience or avoiding a negative experience. You’re a bit anxious about that situation repeating itself, but the universe wants you to know that at least that issue is behind you.
Focus On What You Can Do
The reason why you’re having this success in love is due to the Eight of Pentacles. This is about working carefully and intentionally. Love is often born from that careful pruning. While someone might be attracted to another, that attraction can be quite toxic if careful attention isn’t paid to healthy behaviors.
But that’s what you’re going to do now: act in a way that honors your current or future relationship.
You may have the tendency to be a perfectionist and have an all-or-nothing attitude. That’s not helpful, and if you do find yourself doing that, turn that perfectionism not to outcome, but effort towards growth.
For example, someone who is single and afraid they’ll never fall in love again shouldn’t try to find the perfect partner. Instead, what they should measure and aim for should be something that increases their odds (like going on a certain number of dates each month).
Those who are in a relationship need to understand that it’s a partnership, and you can’t control their behavior. What is it you can do to pay attention to your partner so they feel loved? How can you communicate your needs so they can respond to you?
Keep Building
Your future looks bright with the Seven of Pentacles card. This is about investing in the future and planting seeds. Not everything is going to bloom, so be prepared for that, but something is bound to flower abundantly in your romantic life.
Always remember that you and your partner aren’t perfect. You’re bound to do something that annoys and even infuriates them, while they’ll inevitably do the same to you. Instead, focus on what goes well and keep growing and nurturing that.
It should have a heavier emphasis in your relationship than the annoyances, and of course, those annoyances should never be signs of abuse (no matter how small).
A practice a gratitude here can be really helpful. Men tend to struggle with this the most, but a good way to act gratefully and model expectations for your partner is through cultural gratitude events like anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays.
Cards, gifts, quality time – all these reflect gratitude in different ways, and they can be put on a schedule with reminders on the calendar or phone.
If you or a partner struggles to remember these days, use digital reminders or ask the partner to remind them a week or so in advance. Reminders aren’t signs of inattention if the person struggles with that level of executive functioning to begin with.
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Pile 3: Cat
The Situation at Hand
There’s some difficulty being in alignment given the Three of Pentacles, Reversed card. Yet both the Queen of Coins and King of Coins are upright, suggesting that things can be quite good if the situation is positively resolved.
If you’re single, this could be a sign that there’s someone out there for you, but you don’t know how to present yourself or identify the person you want in potential suitors. You may need to go on a lot of first dates and even second or third dates before you really get to know someone.
This is especially true if you’re introverted or attracted to introverted people. They tend to be more reserved. And if you have special circumstances or are somehow unusual in your dating scene, it can be difficult to find someone right away.
If you’re in a relationship, this spread indicates that you and your partner want the same thing, but can’t express how to get there.
The rest of this reading will be divided into singles and those in a relationship. Be sure to pick the one appropriate for your situation.
If You’re Single
Finding love that can last may seem impossible, but it isn’t – you just don’t know how to select and be selected. There’s something unique about you or the type of person you’re attracted to, so there are fewer options than you would like.
As an example: you’re Jewish and you want to date someone who is also Jewish. But you live in an area with very few Jew or Jews who tend to be secular, so it’s not the first thing they list. And because of antisemitism, you’re a little afraid to mention you’re Jewish when first meeting someone or online to avoid being attacked.
This is where signaling is important. There are certain things that people know about or are interested in that people outside that group are not. Or would at least be less likely to know or recognize, yet it would be a spotlight for the people you want to attract.
If you’re artistic and you want to date someone who is also artistic, you’d want to signal that interest physically in public. I’ve noticed artists tend to dress eccentrically or have graphic designs on their clothing or accessories. They’re also more likely to mention they enjoy spending hours drawing or particular forms of media as entertainment in online profiles.
Need help? Try asking AI what signals you can use to tell others about your specific interests and values.
If You’re In a Relationship
The goal you have right now isn’t how you’ll resolve problems or come to decisions, but determining what the outcome needs to be in the first place.
You need to communicate with your partner using lists that are objectively written down. What is it you want in the relationship or in an area you have a conflict with?
Imagine a couple who both want kids, but one wants to have a single child and the other wants to have three. What do they have in common? They both want to be parents. What do they already agree with? They’re going to have at least one child.
Once you establish the things that don’t need to be negotiated at all, you can then talk about why you have differences. Perhaps the parent who just wants one child is the mother and wants to focus on her career more, while the father who wants three enjoys having a lively home.
Then, each can brainstorm ways they can have elements of both possibilities and enjoy the outcome. The mother could agree to more children if the father stays home. Or perhaps the father can agree to just one child if they have a more scheduled family quality time so they spend more time together.
After that, it’s just a matter of picking with possible method is the most liked by both of you. Rate them if you need to.
Don’t look for victory – look for ways you can both be happy with either outcome. It’s going to take compromise and creative thinking to find these solutions, so be okay with this discussion taking some time. Meanwhile, you can pursue what you already agreed upon.
This spread indicates powerful common ground. Use that as an anchor.
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