Unblock Your Love Life — Tarot Pick a Card
Hello, my soul friends! I have a free psychic tarot reading today on how to unblock your love life. This is a general reading, so it’ll work if you’re single or already in a relationship.
To receive your message from the universe, pick one of the piles above using your intuition.
After you select your cards, scroll down to your pile or choose below.
For this reading, I’ve used the Psychic Tarot Oracle deck. The pile images come from a Refustar sticker pack. These are affiliate links, and they help support me if you choose to make a purchase.
Remember that you have free will. That means you can manifest the positive and avoid the negative of any reading.
Now let’s see how you can make romance flow.
Pile 1: Jar
You Feel That Fate Is Against You
The universe thinks you deserve a lot of healing right now in love. The first card, Heartache and Loss, refers either to a relationship that was lost or feeling as if you can’t find a love you deserve.
Whenever this happens, people can feel blocked for a long time. This is usually due to feeling jaded by the unfortunate circumstances they’ve faced… and who could blame anyone for that!
But the truth is that love is out there for you. This isn’t a platitude, but a real truth the universe wants you to know. But the reason why you still feel blocked is that you’re Trapped in Fear.
That means you either dealt with an abusive situation or an uneasy one.
Weren’t abused? Faced no tragedy? You’d be surprised, but small things can add up. Imagine a teenager who is never asked out on a date while all their friends have been. This can lead the person to doubt they’re loveable even though nothing tragic actually happened to them.
But because of this, they’re scared to ask someone out themselves or even accept that someone likes them when it does happen. They think it must be a prank. No matter what opportunity comes their way, they reject it.
You’re experiencing this fear trap right now and you deserve healing from it.
Defeat the War Within
But again, the universe is telling you that love is out there. If you’re single, you’ll find love again. If you’re in a relationship, it will become more heartfelt and romantic.
However, you’re stuck in a toxic mental framework. The final card in your spread, Mental Conflict, indicates you’re at war with yourself in your mind.
Logically, you know that you can find love. But you don’t believe it. And because of that, you’re suffering mental anguish that you don’t need to be suffering.
How do you break out of this? This time, the universe wants you to accept evidence that you’re loveable and that there’s someone out there who you can love too.
This will require accepting two facts: the first is that anyone can find love, even someone who is flawed. The second is that you’re loved for your emotional safety and your shared lifestyle.
Let’s explore that.
Write Down the Evidence
We often tell people that someone will love you because you’re imperfect. That’s just a platitude. The reason someone loves another is that they feel good around them and they have something in common.
Physical attraction can snag the attention of someone so they can fall in love with these traits, but proximity tends to promote love if emotional safety and shared lifestyle is met. You still need to match the person’s sexual orientation (otherwise this would just be a friendship), but once you have that, love can bloom.
Your job today is to write down what would make you emotionally safe for other people. Maybe you’re impulsive, and that’s not loveable, but you’re also kind, and that is. Someone who values kindness above impulsivity can grow to love you.
You also need to note what lifestyle you want to share with others. Someone who loves farming isn’t a match for a person who likes the city. And another person who really cares about religion and the other doesn’t isn’t a match.
So writing down this list of those two categories will help you to realize why you’re loveable and by what type of person. This will help ease your mental anguish. You already have what you need to be loveable in who you are. It’s just about finding the right match and then being in proximity to teach other.
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Pile 2: Cat
Sacrifice For Each Other
Because of the Triumph card here, it appears as if ego is getting in the way of your love life. There’s so much potential for love, but there’s a focus on self and achievement instead.
And that’s not bad, but love requires mutual participation. Either you, your partner, or both of you are too focused on success that there isn’t room for love.
One way to not give up on your ambitions but graft this onto your love life is to see your ambitions as in service to love itself.
If you’re single, then your ambitions could put you into contact with someone who would share similar interests. If you’re in a relationship, then your ambitions can support the economic household and life comforts you’ll enjoy together.
But to do this, you can’t see your life ambitions only as an achievement of self, but an achievement of you and your partner. It’s not a solitary endeavor.
You need to be each other’s cheerleaders who sacrifice when needed to see the other rise. You don’t work for your dreams, but for the household. That means compromises, but it also means a safety net that will allow you to take risks other people can’t. Your current or future partner has your back.
Get to the Point
Your second card features a magician looking out on a starry sky. It’s about Truth and unblocking your love life will require you to look at romance objectively as a whole.
What does love mean to you? What does it mean to your current or future partner? Chemistry is great, but pursuing love means being on the same page for your future together.
Take some time to write down what your life goals are, what your values are, what you need in a partner, what you can provide, and anything else that comes to mind. If you’re in a relationship, have your partner do this too. If you’re single, you’ll want to have a discussion on these matters early on in the relationship. Probably not the first date. That can be expectation dumping.
You shouldn’t look at this exercise as a wish list. Instead, see it as a starting point as a way to bond and reach for the same goals. Maybe you think you can only provide acts of service in love, but a partner says they prefer words of affirmation and you’re surprisingly good at it.
Imagine this: one person dreams of living in New York City as an advertising executive. Their partner wants to live in the suburbs and raise a family. One way both could be winners would be moving to a smaller city and the first person starting their own small company. They’re both working as a team and nobody sacrifices everything.
Show You’re Paying Attention
The final card explains how to orient yourself in the moment. Love isn’t about only being logical. You need to feel and respond to emotion. That’s why the third card, Intuition, is about getting in touch with your more subjective side. Going with instinct.
This isn’t just a psychic thing. Intuition in the emotional sense is perceiving and acting upon what remains unsaid and novel. One day, you’re struggling with work and you come home to a messy house. A partner using intuition knows they might need to do more chores that day in order to show love to you.
Similarly, imagine you with your partner watching a movie and they’re smiling and joking and getting physically close to you. They’re not saying it, but they want intimate time together.
Sure, you can say things aloud, but people in love expect their loved ones to react to their emotional states. This shows a level of closeness they don’t have with other people.
If this is something you struggle with, it’ll take practice and possibly a few mistakes, but you can learn it. People have patterns and you can recognize those patterns and perceive their emotions with experience.
You can always clarify and ask questions when you’re learning, but once you know intuitively what they want and need… respond to it.
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Pile 3: Books
Be There, Be Actually There
Have you ever met someone that seemed untethered to the material world? That might even be you. The reason you may find yourself a little blocked in love is that you or your partner is focusing too much on the Spiritual Union you hope to have.
Yes, in love you should be united in mind, body, and spirit, but romance requires touch and presence. I don’t think you’re appreciating the gravity of that aspect in a relationship.
Now you may be able to have a romantic relationship with someone you can no longer touch because of something like illness or disability, but if you never had touch and presence to begin with, that’s not romance. That’s friendship or being an acquaintance.
Ask yourself if you ever forget to be materially present in love. Some who chose this pile may express this by focusing too much on romantic stories in books instead of living out one in the real world. Or maybe you’re loyal, but that loyalty and feeling emotionally bonded doesn’t lead to touch.
You may also be the victim of this. Your partner is devoted to you, in spiritual theory, but you’re not feeling the physical chemistry that you need to feel true romance. They’re just not present.
Pay Real Attention
Now the good news is that unblocking your love life is a lot easier than for most people. That’s because you already have Harmony with your partner or a future partner. You know what it means to truly love another person on a deep level.
But people’s love languages can vary and how they prefer to be touched can also differ. You may enjoy hugs throughout the day as a general sign of affection, but a partner may prefer words of affirmation.
What gets someone into a positive mood to enjoy romantic touching is different and approaching people with that affectionate preface is key.
Touching itself is something you learn from experience. It involves communicating with your partner and noticing what they respond to positively in and outside of the bedroom.
Harmony here about being receptive to that intimate communication and not relying solely on the spiritual connection between you to keep your relationship strong. Physical harmony is an aspect of love.
This is why a couple could meet online and love each other desperately, but upon meeting don’t have a spark. They don’t know and often are unwilling to have physical harmony.
You’re On the Same Side
Your last card is Partnerships & Alliances. The material and physical connection you have in love isn’t just inside the bedroom or when you’re hanging out with each other – it’s also the economic bond.
Modern culture has atomized the family down to the couple and perhaps their children. This is different from past eras where your primary economic alliance was with your extended family, not just your significant other.
But that’s changed now and you need to look at your romantic partner as a life partner. To truly love one another, you need to be bonded on a material level. That means money, home, reputation, health, and anything earthly.
A good example of this is nutrition. The couple that eats together stays together. But that time together can be short if they aren’t on the same page of healthy eating. When one partner is on a diet and the other is stuffing their face in front of them… it builds resentment. And this happens because we naturally look at our romantic partners as our ally. We need them on our side.
Make sure that you are in general agreement about most things in life. Where disagreements arise, know how to compromise and still cheer your partner on. For example, someone who loves sweets but their partner is diabetic can still have treats now and again, but making a diabetic alternative for their partner at the same time can show support and understanding. That’s love. Because they’re in life together.
Choose to be your romantic partner’s ally.
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